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Originally Posted by DJ_Serg
Damn it, shah, you son of a bitch. Why do you always turns threads this way. Seriously though. You're all off topic. Any suggestions? I read somewhere about thinking 'happy thoughts' when you're around these people? Like some kind of happy memory. I'm gonna try tomorrow lol.
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erm, sorry bout that. I don't know to be honest. never met anyone like this. or maybe I have and have a natural defense mechanism. why is she getting to you so much? I mean, is there anything she is doing precisely? does she talk too much? are her thoughts overwhelmingly complex? is she demanding too much attention? is she very insecure and asks (subconsciously) for constant reassurance?
thinking about it - I know one girl who does that (the latter - she needs constant reassurance). It kind of drains me of energy as well, but I just don't give her the reassurance anymore. consequently, she stops asking me for reassurance and keeps away from me. probably because she thinks I don't like her. I really don't like her too much, so I don't care.
so maybe whatever that girl demands from you mentally, try to stop giving it to her.