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Unread Aug 6th, 2010, 09:24 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Sure, a guy and a girl can be friends... but for me, I think it's unlikely that I would ever be best friends with a girl and keep it as just friends. I just can't see that happening for me if I was such close friends with a girl. Hmmm... though I suppose it could happen if I thought she was completely unattractive.
(But this isn't anecdotal, btw... it's purely hypothetical)


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I'm best friends with a guy. When we met, he had a crush on me, but I was still in a relationship back then. Then after I broke up we had sex once, decided not to repeat it and have been best friends ever since. We talk about everything, sex and emotions included. I never ever feel like he still has a crush on me (he doesn't) and if that isn't enough, he's quite a womanizer, so he's getting lots of sex from several sex buddies and one-night-stands...

Actually, I think because we had sex before, it's easier to be open with each other now. We've basically been all the way, so why be shy now? But I guess you need the right mentality for that to happen. If you're quite inhibited when it comes to sex, then I could imagine a certain awkwardness when you're trying to be friends.
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I accept my share of the responsibility as do they.

Not all cultures kill their own because of sex.
not all but about 99% odds. except having sex with naughty girl, in this case, there is nothing called responsibility. in other hand, u had sex with a good girl, and after that u abandoned her because of nonsense. In my country it means that you are a criminal. Obviously the girl will do everything to avenge u.
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not all but about 99% odds. except having sex with naughty girl, in this case, there is nothing called responsibility. in other hand, u had sex with a good girl, and after that u abandoned her because of nonsense. In my country it means that you are a criminal. Obviously the girl will do everything to avenge u.
I did not abandon any of them. I'm still friends with them. I did not trick them, force them, or abuse them. WE wanted to do it so that's what WE chose to do, and WE enjoyed it.

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Actually, I think because we had sex before, it's easier to be open with each other now. We've basically been all the way, so why be shy now? But I guess you need the right mentality for that to happen. If you're quite inhibited when it comes to sex, then I could imagine a certain awkwardness when you're trying to be friends.
Your right about the mentality aspect. If you have the right mindset, sex is an addition commonality that can make a friendship tighter. I'm not saying that it has to, or that it will work for anyone, but it is kind of a cool thing to be able to share with a friend.

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not all but about 99% odds. except having sex with naughty girl, in this case, there is nothing called responsibility. in other hand, u had sex with a good girl, and after that u abandoned her because of nonsense. In my country it means that you are a criminal. Obviously the girl will do everything to avenge u.
I see you have SRM completely figured out. Pervert that he is

Damn, this is why i'm glad you're back, SRM...you always seem to attract weird people
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I see you have SRM completely figured out. Pervert that he is

Damn, this is why i'm glad you're back, SRM...you always seem to attract weird people
It's a gift
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...Obviously the girl will do everything to avenge u.
you don't know what "avenge" means, do you...
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I see you have SRM completely figured out. Pervert that he is

Damn, this is why i'm glad you're back, SRM...you always seem to attract weird people
hi, i have been being poor worker, there is nothing can change my life out of that. i have lost my girlfriend once because of which have fancy name :"powerful and money"

i did not pervert of what he did. i just want to emphasize that in my country, u cant keep being friends together if u had sex with each other. i know every countries have lot of different including sex, relationship, life, ....

here, i just try to protect the moral of friendship. Pls should not have sex with your friend. For some girls, sex is nothing. for most of girls, sex is the important thing that their life have, and they will probably fall for the one who have sex with them for the first time. and of course, they'll be sad, even go for suicide if the one go away. Pls, use your heart when ever u're going to hurt someone's heart !
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I did not abandon any of them. I'm still friends with them. I did not trick them, force them, or abuse them. WE wanted to do it so that's what WE chose to do, and WE enjoyed it.


Your right about the mentality aspect. If you have the right mindset, sex is an addition commonality that can make a friendship tighter. I'm not saying that it has to, or that it will work for anyone, but it is kind of a cool thing to be able to share with a friend.
how u can say that u did not trick, force or abuse them ! how old your friend was by the time u had sex with ? u know, girl is emotionally fragile and easy to lose the control . it's so bad for the words "we chose to do, and we enjoy it". and "sex is an addition commonality that make a friendship tighter".
i 100% dont agree with u. nothing can warrant such bad things u did.
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I have about 3 best friends .. 1 is a girl, 2 are guys .. one of the guys is my 1st cousin .. so i'd say yes, guys and girls can be best friends .. i do however like my other guy best friend, the one that's not related to me .. so I'm not sure, I guess
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...u know, girl is emotionally fragile and easy to lose the control...
sure that your handle shouldn't read "chauvinist pig"?
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Seriously SRM, how the f*ck did you find this guy?!?!

This is mental
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Seriously SRM, how the f*ck did you find this guy?!?!

This is mental
i have been here naturally, not found by someone. And i have been fighting for the just cause.
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i have been here naturally, not found by someone. And i have been fighting for the just cause.
i dont care what u say about me. "mental" maybe, what's your definition of mental ?Do u remember the definition of freedom that u -American brought to VietNam in the war i think they are the same. stupid definition. my grandfather and 4 uncles believed in that freedom and worked for American. just a short time, they realized the essence of the freedom. they became spies against American. Unfortunately, they ended up being killed by American.

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COLOR="Red"]...u -American...[/color]
when you make an assumption you make an ass out of u and mption...
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how u can say that u did not trick, force or abuse them ! how old your friend was by the time u had sex with ? u know, girl is emotionally fragile and easy to lose the control . it's so bad for the words "we chose to do, and we enjoy it". and "sex is an addition commonality that make a friendship tighter".
i 100% dont agree with u. nothing can warrant such bad things u did.
I can say that because I did not. If I had, why would they choose to continue to be my friends?

Their ages 24,24, 27. How old do they have to be before they are grown up enough to not be "fragile and easy to lose control"?

Nothing can warrant you judging me.
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Seriously SRM, how the f*ck did you find this guy?!?!

This is mental
Wait until he finds out about you
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Wait until he finds out about you
didn't think about that -

tell 'im dusty, tell 'im!
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I wanna know!!!
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I wanna know!!!
Even I know. (...I think) And you've been here longer than me.
It's not like he keeps it quiet (j/k)

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