In Love? Been in Love? - Page 16

StarkRavinMad · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Deadly Groove

I don't even want to produce a response to that. The mind of DG is not always a clean one.

Perhaps the grand opening of the *e-swingers* club?

Deadly Groove · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by StarkRavinMad

Perhaps the grand opening of the *e-swingers* club?

Now that sounds like a great idea but I can't take credit for something you made up, however I'll pass out the complimentary cigars to everyone who comes up in the club before I join in on the action.

MISSLINEY007 · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by StarkRavinMad

Perhaps the grand opening of the *e-swingers* club?

Cyber swinging?

StarkRavinMad · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MISSLINEY007

Cyber swinging?

Anyone with some investment capital? You know there's a market for this, if it hasn't already been addressed.

gillie017 · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by StarkRavinMad

Anyone with some investment capital? You know there's a market for this, if it hasn't already been addressed.

Now there's a novel thought - use the internet for 'dating'. I think you're onto something there SRM. I'll invest my life savings.

MISSLINEY007 · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:34 PM

I might know alittle bit yeah, Im just laughing cause well........Lest all face it,
it would cause chaos and I would never go to sleep wondering what the hell is happening in the *e-swinngers club* room.

Deadly Groove · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by MISSLINEY007

I might know alittle bit yeah, Im just laughing cause well........Lest all face it,
it would cause chaos and I would never go to sleep wondering what the hell is happening in the *e-swinngers club* room.

I am certain that there would be a whole lot going on in the *e-swingers club* room. Nobody would get to sleep because everyone would be getting their groove on, all night too.

MISSLINEY007 · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:45 PM

ohh and the imagination can go on even when the body is tired.
Not the brain though.
It never tires out.

StarkRavinMad · Aug 1st, 2006, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by gillie017

Now there's a novel thought - use the internet for 'dating'. I think you're onto something there SRM. I'll invest my life savings.

Ho ho, there's a little bite to start the day off with.

I was thinking about it being couple specific...blah blah blah, but you're totally correct(pains me though it does to admit it). I know there are sites for hooking up anything that can be hooked up. Thanks for spoiling my dream of internet infamy

misan · Aug 1st, 2006, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Deadly Groove

Yeah I was laughing when I wrote that. Glad you enjoyed it!

quoting you: " This chick was so f*ckin hot and like a total idiot, I said "No I think I'll hang out here" "

Deadly Groove · Aug 1st, 2006, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by misan

quoting you: " This chick was so f*ckin hot and like a total idiot, I said "No I think I'll hang out here" "

Oh well, you can't get them all and besides, maybe my protective rador was going off keeping me away so I don't catch anything. She could've had some STDs or something.

MISSLINEY007 · Aug 1st, 2006, 08:35 PM

sI see the nasty Love bug triied to get you DG.
Good thing you didnt let that one bite ya.

reins · Aug 2nd, 2006, 08:43 PM

Never been in love and I'm not quite sure what it means yet. I guess I'll just have to wait and find out. From the sounds of things it's pretty good.

Deadly Groove · Aug 2nd, 2006, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by MISSLINEY007

sI see the nasty Love bug triied to get you DG.
Good thing you didnt let that one bite ya.

My radar doesn't work well but it works when I need it to.

faerie dust · Aug 3rd, 2006, 06:36 PM

i'm in love.
i started out having a huge crush on him.
this really cute raver boy.
then mystery led me to him.
and friendship grew.
my mind would not entertain another thought.
teamwork: i could keep up with him line after line.
and k swirls vanished.
when we finally kissed
~magic~
the stars grew brighter.
and being without him that summer nearly killed me.
then together again
so many beautiful glittering moments...we were on the roll.
then news of new life came into view.
scared but sure
sure of forever.
marriage to my best friend.
my dream come true.
weak where i am strong
strong where i am weak.
stayed with me during darkness.
and new life almost here
to celebrate all that we are together.
leaving our legacy of perfect love.

Lotz · Aug 4th, 2006, 01:44 AM

Aww Faerie that is just so beautiful

Luigiz · Aug 4th, 2006, 11:46 AM

Hello, all. I think it may be helpful as well as interesting to look at relationships in a different way. I guess we have all been through many relationships, learnt this or that technique, suceeded and failed, but chances are we are still pretty confused about the whole thing. For many of us, our past experience, if anything, is just making us wonder whether that which we are looking for really exists. Instead of looking at relationships as a way to complete ourselves by finding something or someone who can give us what our mind says it's lacking in our lifes (i.e. a feeling of being attractive, a way out of our solitude, sex, etc.), wouldn't it make a world of difference to use our relationships as a way by which to know ourselves better? If I got to know this "mind" of mine more thoroughly, wouldn't perhaps that be the same as understanding what not to do and who not to be in future relationships so that a new outcome is possible, in the world of my relationships as much as anywhere else? Author Guy Finley says that "for the person to whom and in whom self knowledge begins to become a living force, there can be no such thing as a bad day or a bad relationship. It’s impossible, because everything that happens to us as self-working men or women is used for the purpose it was created… which is help us discover our actual condition. Then, the whole of the world and all of its whirling and confusing relationships provides us an opportunity to change the whole of our lives." Now, that really seems like good advice to at last start enjoying different relationships with people and events, doesn't it? To me, advice, techniques, tips, etc. given out so that we can lure others into satisfying our desires sounds quite manipulative and selfish. No wonder when the excitement fades and we've satisfied our need, the whole relationship starts falling apart. I am sure we can all relate to that, can't we.
What I am sharing with you has helped me to change the way I relate to others. Perhaps the idea of more authentic relationships, less selfish and more conscious, is really the true way to go. Only we have given very little thought to it up until now.
I hope this helps.
Luis

HudsonHawk · Aug 4th, 2006, 11:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by faerie dust

i'm in love.
i started out having a huge crush on him.
this really cute raver boy.
then mystery led me to him.
and friendship grew.
my mind would not entertain another thought.
teamwork: i could keep up with him line after line.
and k swirls vanished.
when we finally kissed
~magic~
the stars grew brighter.
and being without him that summer nearly killed me.
then together again
so many beautiful glittering moments...we were on the roll.
then news of new life came into view.
scared but sure
sure of forever.
marriage to my best friend.
my dream come true.
weak where i am strong
strong where i am weak.
stayed with me during darkness.
and new life almost here
to celebrate all that we are together.
leaving our legacy of perfect love.

He's one lucky guy

MISSLINEY007 · Aug 4th, 2006, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Luigiz

wouldn't it make a world of difference to use our relationships as a way by which to know ourselves better?

Luis

I think its called trial and error if I am wrong then cool.

But that is why poeple ussually try to see what they need and want out of a authentic relationship. If you learn from a relationship then I think that we are getting to know ourslelves, but somtimes you have to give it time.

A few falls and a few broken hearts later people know what they want and it was all of the good, the bad relationships that helped.

travelyogatrance · Aug 6th, 2006, 01:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by faerie dust

i'm in love.
i started out having a huge crush on him.
this really cute raver boy.
then mystery led me to him.
and friendship grew.
my mind would not entertain another thought.
teamwork: i could keep up with him line after line.
and k swirls vanished.
when we finally kissed
~magic~
the stars grew brighter.
and being without him that summer nearly killed me.
then together again
so many beautiful glittering moments...we were on the roll.
then news of new life came into view.
scared but sure
sure of forever.
marriage to my best friend.
my dream come true.
weak where i am strong
strong where i am weak.
stayed with me during darkness.
and new life almost here
to celebrate all that we are together.
leaving our legacy of perfect love.

faerie, I seriously just teared up reading these words. Beautiful sis, just beautiful~

Aug 1st, 2006, 06:34 PM	#306 (permalink)
MISSLINEY007 DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Texas dammit!( But from C Posts: 2,837	I might know alittle bit yeah, Im just laughing cause well........Lest all face it, it would cause chaos and I would never go to sleep wondering what the hell is happening in the e-swinngers club room. __________________ crazy is doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome.

Aug 1st, 2006, 06:45 PM	#308 (permalink)
MISSLINEY007 DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Texas dammit!( But from C Posts: 2,837	ohh and the imagination can go on even when the body is tired. Not the brain though. It never tires out. __________________ crazy is doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome.

Aug 1st, 2006, 08:35 PM	#312 (permalink)
MISSLINEY007 DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Texas dammit!( But from C Posts: 2,837	sI see the nasty Love bug triied to get you DG. Good thing you didnt let that one bite ya. __________________ crazy is doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome.

Aug 3rd, 2006, 06:36 PM	#315 (permalink)
faerie dust DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: midwest dreamery Posts: 2,391	i'm in love. i started out having a huge crush on him. this really cute raver boy. then mystery led me to him. and friendship grew. my mind would not entertain another thought. teamwork: i could keep up with him line after line. and k swirls vanished. when we finally kissed ~magic~ the stars grew brighter. and being without him that summer nearly killed me. then together again so many beautiful glittering moments...we were on the roll. then news of new life came into view. scared but sure sure of forever. marriage to my best friend. my dream come true. weak where i am strong strong where i am weak. stayed with me during darkness. and new life almost here to celebrate all that we are together. leaving our legacy of perfect love. __________________ "No honey, if that was REAL wine, your mommy would have already drank it." -Truth is still truth even if no one believes it. A lie is still a lie even if everyone believes it.- soundtrack of my life: Communicate-sasha and digweed

Aug 4th, 2006, 01:44 AM	#316 (permalink)
Lotz DI Chronic Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: where am I again??? Posts: 6,452	Aww Faerie that is just so beautiful __________________ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ Of all the things I've ever lost, I miss the wolfboy the most! ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~

Aug 2nd, 2006, 08:43 PM	#313 (permalink)
reins Qualified Forum Addict Join Date: May 2006 Location: USA Posts: 107	Never been in love and I'm not quite sure what it means yet. I guess I'll just have to wait and find out. From the sounds of things it's pretty good.

Aug 4th, 2006, 11:46 AM	#317 (permalink)
Luigiz Addict in Training Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Oregon Posts: 1	A new way to look at relationships Hello, all. I think it may be helpful as well as interesting to look at relationships in a different way. I guess we have all been through many relationships, learnt this or that technique, suceeded and failed, but chances are we are still pretty confused about the whole thing. For many of us, our past experience, if anything, is just making us wonder whether that which we are looking for really exists. Instead of looking at relationships as a way to complete ourselves by finding something or someone who can give us what our mind says it's lacking in our lifes (i.e. a feeling of being attractive, a way out of our solitude, sex, etc.), wouldn't it make a world of difference to use our relationships as a way by which to know ourselves better? If I got to know this "mind" of mine more thoroughly, wouldn't perhaps that be the same as understanding what not to do and who not to be in future relationships so that a new outcome is possible, in the world of my relationships as much as anywhere else? Author Guy Finley says that "for the person to whom and in whom self knowledge begins to become a living force, there can be no such thing as a bad day or a bad relationship. It’s impossible, because everything that happens to us as self-working men or women is used for the purpose it was created… which is help us discover our actual condition. Then, the whole of the world and all of its whirling and confusing relationships provides us an opportunity to change the whole of our lives." Now, that really seems like good advice to at last start enjoying different relationships with people and events, doesn't it? To me, advice, techniques, tips, etc. given out so that we can lure others into satisfying our desires sounds quite manipulative and selfish. No wonder when the excitement fades and we've satisfied our need, the whole relationship starts falling apart. I am sure we can all relate to that, can't we. What I am sharing with you has helped me to change the way I relate to others. Perhaps the idea of more authentic relationships, less selfish and more conscious, is really the true way to go. Only we have given very little thought to it up until now. I hope this helps. Luis

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