in love with love.

whothafunkk · Jun 8th, 2006, 03:03 AM

in the last year and a half, i dated two people.
the first guy i dated discreetly, like we didnt commit to one another, but wed both end up together all the time, it was kind of unspoken, and it was alottt of fun and alot of laughing. but still no commitment and no talk of being faithful to one another, or where it was heading. so naturally over time i got attached and vice versa. then when other people would be interested in either of us, we'd just turn them down.
someone told me a lie, so i kind of abruptly ended contact with him, and wouldnt talk to him when id see him, or i wouldnt go to where i knew he was going...
while this was happening i met this other guy, who was totally a sweertheart and the most talented guy ever..not too mention a hot hardhouse dj...so while avoiding the first guy, i started chilling with the second guy, and over time we grew into an actual couple. like. commited to eachother, and i knew the first guy was put off about it..but i didnt care..

sooooo long story short...the second guy and i are no longer seeing eachother, except as booty calls. i think he still wants to be commited, but im not down.
so i went travelling for a bit. and now i get home, and i ran into the first guy at the club my first night back, and my hear just about stopped beating...
so i was saying no to the second guy when he wanted to hook up.
now its been a few weeks, and i cant work up the nerve to call the first guy.
but the badddest thing is. im starting to really like my old friend, and i think hes starting to like me alot too. how could i not have noticed him before!?
like seriously what the hell is wrong everyone!? cant we all just calm down, and talk about our feelings!?!?!
wtf

anyone else ever get confused about this shit.
and sometimes with the ones you know you would love the most, theres no way possible for it to happen!?

Dimentio · Jun 8th, 2006, 03:38 AM

wow wtf sounds rough.

PhineasFreak · Jun 8th, 2006, 04:25 AM

you got some loooong hard thinking to do there - that's a doozy of a situation to sort out. damned if i can offer any helpful advice, but i can at least send you some emotional support - you have my fullest sympathies girl!

**djGT** · Jun 8th, 2006, 01:08 PM

It sounds like you still have feelings for this first guy. So much was left unsaid and unfinished. Maybe it's time to just tell him how you feel. Who knows, he might still have feelings for you as well.

"What Is Love"

What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more

Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
What is love
Yeah

Oh I don't know
why you're not fair
I give you my love
but you don't care
So what is right
and what is wrong
gimme a sign

HudsonHawk · Jun 8th, 2006, 01:44 PM

I see your lyrics and raise you some more..

Looking back on all the time we spent together
You oughta know right now if you wanna be my lover
Wanna be my lover
Go ahead and take your time, boy you gotta feel secure
Before I make you mine, baby, you have to be sure
You wanna be my lover, wanna be my lover, wanna be my lover

I must confess
Girl, yes, I wanna be your lover
Take a chance, my love is like no other
On the dancefloor getting down
Hold tight, Ill never let you down
My love is definitely the key
Like boyz ii men Im on bended knee
Loving you, not like your brother, aw yeah
I wanna be your lover

**djGT** · Jun 8th, 2006, 01:49 PM

I see your raise and going all in!

Its tearin up my heart when Im with you
And when we are apart I feel it too
And no matter what I do I feel the pain
With or without you

Hey

Baby, I dont understand
Just why we cant be lovers
Things are getting out of hand
Tryin to much, but baby we can win
Let it go, if you want me girl let me know
I am down, on my knees
I cant take it anymore

Hooooooh, all right

Baby dont misunderstand,
(dont misunderstand)
What Im trying to tell ya
In the corner of my mind, (corner of my mind)
Baby it feels like were running out of time
Let it go (go) if you want me girl let me know
I am down on my knees, I cant take it anymore ohhhhh..

HudsonHawk · Jun 8th, 2006, 02:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by djGT

I see your raise and going all in!

We can do this all day...

Don't leave me in all this pain
Don't leave me out in the rain
Come back and bring back my smile
Come and take these tears away
I need your arms to hold me now
The nights are so unkind
Bring back those nights when I held you beside me

Un-break my heart
Say you'll love me again
Undo this hurt you caused
When you walked out the door
And walked outta my life
Un-cry these tears
I cried so many nights
Un-break my heart
My heart

spy · Jun 8th, 2006, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by whothafunkk

so i was saying no to the second guy when he wanted to hook up.

By any chance did he get his point across by spinning "shut up and sleep with me" while mouthing the words? XD

And I'm not one to give love advice, but sounds like mystery man #1 is your best guy friend but since you were holding back before your feelings weren't able to reach him.
Is he bf material or just a friend? Hell he may even be confused on the same thing.

But yesm, take your own advice and make yourself clear with both people so you're not constantly juggling two balls... ok bad analogy. But still nothing worse than giving out the wrong signals.

whothafunkk · Jun 9th, 2006, 06:52 AM

life life life.
love is so hard...
not too sure what to think about it all..
the first guy was one of my really good friends, but my bestfriends boyfriends bestfriend. so its all really harder to figure out since she moved away, and i dont really see him anymore, and even harder for me to call him since all this shits happened. damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.
wtf

will2682001 · Jun 9th, 2006, 09:56 PM

Lemme say this.

LOVE IS A BITCH!

I was in a loving realtionship with my ex, and we had the most wonderful relationship, it was like me and him were ****ing solmates, next thing you know he just breaks it off with me after a year....and ywhole world was crushed, and shit felt like it would never be any better...but here I am today happy as shit and tralala all over the place. So im sorry to be an asshole but all I can say is, no matter what road is chosen there will always be problems like this, the true test of love is wether or not the two people can bear it all and still love each other. So put them to the test. Find the one that u can deal with the best and shoot for him. And then w/e happens happens. But all in all make sure ur ok. U are the most important person in all of this, and lemme tell u emotions can hurt....hurt bad......

So good luck and i hope everything works out to your liking....

-XeRo- · Jun 9th, 2006, 10:13 PM

im in love with a strippa!!

MISSLINEY007 · Jun 9th, 2006, 11:22 PM

It just is not the year of love for DI poeple.
Me too I have been a victim.
But I wont sit here and put about it.
Well only for a bit.
What a jerk!
Cheating, lying mofo! I want to bust him out and hope that he catches an STD and learns his leason!
I know she will not make him happy, its an internet thing how often do those things really work out?
Hahahaha ok I am done with my rant.

OK Sorry about your situaltion wtf.
Its comfusing I know.
Courage girl, get it. Its ok The worst you can hear is no.

DJ_Serg · Jun 9th, 2006, 11:59 PM

I must be 100% goddamn brain dead cuz i got confused in the middle of your story there. haha. sorry. You're a very beautiful woman and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Best of luck!

MISSLINEY007 · Jun 10th, 2006, 12:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DJ_Serg

I must be 100% goddamn brain dead cuz i got confused in the middle of your story there. haha. sorry. You're a very beautiful woman and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Best of luck!

Awwwe thanks.
Its hard to feel beautiful after a hard fall on your face.
But hey that why god invented makeup and high heels.
Skirts help too.
Ill stay beautifull inside and out.
watch out people this is a new Liney!

too-far · Jun 10th, 2006, 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MISSLINEY007

watch out people this is a new Liney!

im scared...

whothafunkk · Jun 11th, 2006, 06:18 PM

so i saw him again at the club, and he like came and stood right behind me, and i DONT know why i was pretending not see him t here, i think i was nervous, and the he finally kind of just tapped me on the shoulder was like 'i know you saw me/dont pretend like im not here'
and i was like 'ahhh i really didnt see you ther! omg! how are you!' kind of lame ...
and then we just kind of stayed really close together for the rest of the night.
awww. everyones like 'its about time' nice. score for me.
it feels good to be close to someone you really care about.
wtf

whothafunkk · Jun 11th, 2006, 06:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by -XeRo-

im in love with a strippa!!

hahaha i really love that song. i spun it everytime my friend let me spin at his bar. i have this crazy progressive house mix of it..its tigggggggggggggght.
all my stripper friends love it too. everyone wins!
wtf

Time Burner · Jun 12th, 2006, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MISSLINEY007

It just is not the year of love for DI poeple.
Me too I have been a victim.
But I wont sit here and put about it.
Well only for a bit.
What a jerk!
Cheating, lying mofo! I want to bust him out and hope that he catches an STD and learns his leason!
I know she will not make him happy, its an internet thing how often do those things really work out?
Hahahaha ok I am done with my rant.

OK Sorry about your situaltion wtf.
Its comfusing I know.
Courage girl, get it. Its ok The worst you can hear is no.

I'm amazed that your now ex (I assume) would cheat on you.

You are absolutely stunning. Well, it might have been said by someone before, but it's his loss, and now you have everything to gain. Not sure how long your relationship was, however, it may not seem like it, but, it's better to find out now what he is like than to find out later.

- Time Burner -

DJ_Serg · Jun 12th, 2006, 09:06 AM

lol, this thread proves once more that women are ready to make a huge mess out of nothing. If you still liked the guy, why didn't just call him up instead of waiting for the chance to meet him somewhere and then when you actually do, pretend you haven't noticed him. haha. This is classic.
Well, i'm glad everything turned out in your favor. Good luck!

whothafunkk · Jun 13th, 2006, 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DJ_Serg

lol, this thread proves once more that women are ready to make a huge mess out of nothing. If you still liked the guy, why didn't just call him up instead of waiting for the chance to meet him somewhere and then when you actually do, pretend you haven't noticed him. haha. This is classic.
Well, i'm glad everything turned out in your favor. Good luck!

im not sure why i didnt either.
but something deep deep down within me just wouldnt let me do it.
hahaha im kidding..but youre right..im young and crazy and i can still get away with acting like this!?
wtf

oh and thanks time burner,

Jun 8th, 2006, 03:03 AM	#1 (permalink)
whothafunkk DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Little McChickenVille Posts: 1,423	in love with love. in the last year and a half, i dated two people. the first guy i dated discreetly, like we didnt commit to one another, but wed both end up together all the time, it was kind of unspoken, and it was alottt of fun and alot of laughing. but still no commitment and no talk of being faithful to one another, or where it was heading. so naturally over time i got attached and vice versa. then when other people would be interested in either of us, we'd just turn them down. someone told me a lie, so i kind of abruptly ended contact with him, and wouldnt talk to him when id see him, or i wouldnt go to where i knew he was going... while this was happening i met this other guy, who was totally a sweertheart and the most talented guy ever..not too mention a hot hardhouse dj...so while avoiding the first guy, i started chilling with the second guy, and over time we grew into an actual couple. like. commited to eachother, and i knew the first guy was put off about it..but i didnt care.. sooooo long story short...the second guy and i are no longer seeing eachother, except as booty calls. i think he still wants to be commited, but im not down. so i went travelling for a bit. and now i get home, and i ran into the first guy at the club my first night back, and my hear just about stopped beating... so i was saying no to the second guy when he wanted to hook up. now its been a few weeks, and i cant work up the nerve to call the first guy. but the badddest thing is. im starting to really like my old friend, and i think hes starting to like me alot too. how could i not have noticed him before!? like seriously what the hell is wrong everyone!? cant we all just calm down, and talk about our feelings!?!?! wtf anyone else ever get confused about this shit. and sometimes with the ones you know you would love the most, theres no way possible for it to happen!? __________________ "JUST STRUT' "SEE, I COME AT IT LIKE A PREDATOR" "SHAKE IT GIRL, SHAKE IT LIKES IT TROPICANA" MORSE CODE FROM THE COLD WAR - DIETER SCHMIDT(soundtrack for last couple years of my life)

Jun 8th, 2006, 03:38 AM	#2 (permalink)
Dimentio DI Chillout Dream Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Dimension DI Posts: 6,282	wow wtf sounds rough. __________________ One night, I was lying on my bed gazing at the beautiful moon and stars and I thought to myself... "Where the %#$! did my roof go?!" ♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫■♫ Smith & Pledger - White Master of Dimensions. Pleaser of Crowds.

Jun 8th, 2006, 04:25 AM	#3 (permalink)
PhineasFreak DI Critical Mass Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Dancing with wolves Posts: 33,185	you got some loooong hard thinking to do there - that's a doozy of a situation to sort out. damned if i can offer any helpful advice, but i can at least send you some emotional support - you have my fullest sympathies girl! __________________ "It sounds like God treading on a lego brick" - Jeremy Clarkson New Psy-Dub remix! http://www.ubetoo.com/psytrance/46349

Jun 8th, 2006, 01:08 PM	#4 (permalink)
djGT Vocal Trance Addict DI Crew Moderator Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: The OC, USA Posts: 17,745	It sounds like you still have feelings for this first guy. So much was left unsaid and unfinished. Maybe it's time to just tell him how you feel. Who knows, he might still have feelings for you as well. "What Is Love" What is love Baby don't hurt me Don't hurt me no more Baby don't hurt me Don't hurt me no more What is love Yeah Oh I don't know why you're not fair I give you my love but you don't care So what is right and what is wrong gimme a sign __________________ Next Show: ♥ Every 3rd Tuesday @ VT Channel @ 1PM-3PM US EST ♥ ♪ www.GenerationTrance.com ♪

Jun 8th, 2006, 01:44 PM	#5 (permalink)
HudsonHawk Cruising at 120BPM Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: New York Posts: 10,451	I see your lyrics and raise you some more.. Looking back on all the time we spent together You oughta know right now if you wanna be my lover Wanna be my lover Go ahead and take your time, boy you gotta feel secure Before I make you mine, baby, you have to be sure You wanna be my lover, wanna be my lover, wanna be my lover I must confess Girl, yes, I wanna be your lover Take a chance, my love is like no other On the dancefloor getting down Hold tight, Ill never let you down My love is definitely the key Like boyz ii men Im on bended knee Loving you, not like your brother, aw yeah I wanna be your lover __________________ Fancy a ride on my Choo Choo Train? http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=5795CE27FA841CD7

Jun 8th, 2006, 01:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
djGT Vocal Trance Addict DI Crew Moderator Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: The OC, USA Posts: 17,745	I see your raise and going all in! Its tearin up my heart when Im with you And when we are apart I feel it too And no matter what I do I feel the pain With or without you Hey Baby, I dont understand Just why we cant be lovers Things are getting out of hand Tryin to much, but baby we can win Let it go, if you want me girl let me know I am down, on my knees I cant take it anymore Hooooooh, all right Baby dont misunderstand, (dont misunderstand) What Im trying to tell ya In the corner of my mind, (corner of my mind) Baby it feels like were running out of time Let it go (go) if you want me girl let me know I am down on my knees, I cant take it anymore ohhhhh.. __________________ Next Show: ♥ Every 3rd Tuesday @ VT Channel @ 1PM-3PM US EST ♥ ♪ www.GenerationTrance.com ♪

Jun 9th, 2006, 06:52 AM	#9 (permalink)
whothafunkk DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Little McChickenVille Posts: 1,423	life life life. love is so hard... not too sure what to think about it all.. the first guy was one of my really good friends, but my bestfriends boyfriends bestfriend. so its all really harder to figure out since she moved away, and i dont really see him anymore, and even harder for me to call him since all this shits happened. damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. wtf __________________ "JUST STRUT' "SEE, I COME AT IT LIKE A PREDATOR" "SHAKE IT GIRL, SHAKE IT LIKES IT TROPICANA" MORSE CODE FROM THE COLD WAR - DIETER SCHMIDT(soundtrack for last couple years of my life)

Jun 9th, 2006, 09:56 PM	#10 (permalink)
will2682001 Junior Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: United States Posts: 61	Lemme say this. *LOVE IS A BITCH!* I was in a loving realtionship with my ex, and we had the most wonderful relationship, it was like me and him were ****ing solmates, next thing you know he just breaks it off with me after a year....and ywhole world was crushed, and shit felt like it would never be any better...but here I am today happy as shit and tralala all over the place. So im sorry to be an asshole but all I can say is, no matter what road is chosen there will always be problems like this, the true test of love is wether or not the two people can bear it all and still love each other. So put them to the test. Find the one that u can deal with the best and shoot for him. And then w/e happens happens. But all in all make sure ur ok. U are the most important person in all of this, and lemme tell u emotions can hurt....hurt bad...... So good luck and i hope everything works out to your liking.... __________________ No your wrong, I'm not gay cuz I like House music, I like House music because I'm gay! Simple as that.... MYSPACE AND AIM ME!!!! http://myspace.com/jjcsulb4life sn:will2682001

Jun 9th, 2006, 10:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
-XeRo- GLoWSTicK NinJa Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: TeXaS Posts: 8,284	im in love with a strippa!! __________________ I feel earth drums deep in the mountain's feet; Compelling rhythm driving from the core. I quicken to the flow of molten heat, and sing with earth song felt in granite's roar.

Jun 9th, 2006, 11:22 PM	#12 (permalink)
MISSLINEY007 DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Texas dammit!( But from C Posts: 2,837	It just is not the year of love for DI poeple. Me too I have been a victim. But I wont sit here and put about it. Well only for a bit. What a jerk! Cheating, lying mofo! I want to bust him out and hope that he catches an STD and learns his leason! I know she will not make him happy, its an internet thing how often do those things really work out? Hahahaha ok I am done with my rant. OK Sorry about your situaltion wtf. Its comfusing I know. Courage girl, get it. Its ok The worst you can hear is no. __________________ crazy is doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. Last edited by MISSLINEY007 : Jun 9th, 2006 at 11:29 PM.

Jun 9th, 2006, 11:59 PM	#13 (permalink)
DJ_Serg DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: USA Posts: 4,641	I must be 100% goddamn brain dead cuz i got confused in the middle of your story there. haha. sorry. You're a very beautiful woman and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Best of luck!

Jun 11th, 2006, 06:18 PM	#16 (permalink)
whothafunkk DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Little McChickenVille Posts: 1,423	so i saw him again at the club, and he like came and stood right behind me, and i DONT know why i was pretending not see him t here, i think i was nervous, and the he finally kind of just tapped me on the shoulder was like 'i know you saw me/dont pretend like im not here' and i was like 'ahhh i really didnt see you ther! omg! how are you!' kind of lame ... and then we just kind of stayed really close together for the rest of the night. awww. everyones like 'its about time' nice. score for me. it feels good to be close to someone you really care about. wtf __________________ "JUST STRUT' "SEE, I COME AT IT LIKE A PREDATOR" "SHAKE IT GIRL, SHAKE IT LIKES IT TROPICANA" MORSE CODE FROM THE COLD WAR - DIETER SCHMIDT(soundtrack for last couple years of my life)

Jun 12th, 2006, 09:06 AM	#19 (permalink)
DJ_Serg DI Extreme Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: USA Posts: 4,641	lol, this thread proves once more that women are ready to make a huge mess out of nothing. If you still liked the guy, why didn't just call him up instead of waiting for the chance to meet him somewhere and then when you actually do, pretend you haven't noticed him. haha. This is classic. Well, i'm glad everything turned out in your favor. Good luck!

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