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Unread Jun 2nd, 2012, 12:39 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I can no longer feel any ambition inside of me. There was so much I wanted to do, but now I do not feel like I am capable of doing it. It's weird. I just started feeling like this a few days ago... a few days before I was finished with work.

I wanted to get into computer science and engineering. I wanted to design this program I had in my mind. I then wanted to implement it into a robot. I wanted to work with technology... I wanted to make something of myself!

Before that, I wanted to be a game designer. But as I got better with programming and science I started to see it as an impractical (underpaid) career option. So I decided to do it as a pastime if I could make time for it. (In addition to writing)

But now... I no longer for any desire to do anything. I can't study. I no longer have to work for a few months. My friend's don't like talking to me anymore- they got used to me not being around I guess. So I am all by myself and I have no initiative to do anything. I used to have this will burning inside of me, but I cannot feel it anymore.

What should I do to alleviate this?

The only thing I can find the energy to do is watch movies and play video games...
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Unread Jun 7th, 2012, 02:32 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Unread Jun 7th, 2012, 09:28 PM   #3 (permalink)
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well if u stay inside wand watch movies and video games ur kinda stuck. u gotta get "unstuck" gotta get out and find something to do. gotta set a goal. ie get a new job in x amount of weeks. get into great shape in x amount of months. u gotta look forward to something even if its as simple as finding a decent job or running a 5k. idk whatever ur into. gotta make a goal and try to reach it. otherwise ur stuck
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Unread Jun 8th, 2012, 11:18 AM   #4 (permalink)
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it's just what happens as you get older. It happened to me. Life used to be exciting but now i always just like... meh....

I can't give u the answer cos i don't know myself, but if you ever find it let me know please! cheers.

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You probably are of type who when gets closer to one ambition changes it before only. Its like now You don't know what to do anything of what You have been into. So opt for something else. But remember You lifelong can't continue doing that. Settling is very important in life else You'll be left with nothing at the end.
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Unread May 1st, 2013, 10:51 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I can no longer feel any ambition inside of me. There was so much I wanted to do, but now I do not feel like I am capable of doing it. It's weird. I just started feeling like this a few days ago... a few days before I was finished with work.

I wanted to get into computer science and engineering. I wanted to design this program I had in my mind. I then wanted to implement it into a robot. I wanted to work with technology... I wanted to make something of myself!

Before that, I wanted to be a game designer. But as I got better with programming and science I started to see it as an impractical (underpaid) career option. So I decided to do it as a pastime if I could make time for it. (In addition to writing)

But now... I no longer for any desire to do anything. I can't study. I no longer have to work for a few months. My friend's don't like talking to me anymore- they got used to me not being around I guess. So I am all by myself and I have no initiative to do anything. I used to have this will burning inside of me, but I cannot feel it anymore.

What should I do to alleviate this?

The only thing I can find the energy to do is watch movies and play video games...
Just don't think you are worthless to the world, or the world would be better without you. According to Dr Phil, this is what most people who end up suiciding think of most. I'm not saying that you will suicide, but negative thinking definitely doesn't contribute to a bad situation like this.

As for your problem, you haven't told us what caused all of this to happen, or what you at least think was the cause. Maybe then can we make judgements on what to do.
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Unread May 19th, 2013, 01:09 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I can no longer feel any ambition inside of me. There was so much I wanted to do, but now I do not feel like I am capable of doing it. It's weird. I just started feeling like this a few days ago... a few days before I was finished with work.

I wanted to get into computer science and engineering. I wanted to design this program I had in my mind. I then wanted to implement it into a robot. I wanted to work with technology... I wanted to make something of myself!

Before that, I wanted to be a game designer. But as I got better with programming and science I started to see it as an impractical (underpaid) career option. So I decided to do it as a pastime if I could make time for it. (In addition to writing)

But now... I no longer for any desire to do anything. I can't study. I no longer have to work for a few months. My friend's don't like talking to me anymore- they got used to me not being around I guess. So I am all by myself and I have no initiative to do anything. I used to have this will burning inside of me, but I cannot feel it anymore.

What should I do to alleviate this?

The only thing I can find the energy to do is watch movies and play video games...

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Unread Jul 3rd, 2013, 01:19 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Thanks for sharing.
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Unread Jul 22nd, 2013, 04:38 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Get into great shape in x amount of months. u gotta look forward to something even if its as simple as finding a decent job or running a 5k.
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